I know this is counter-intuitive, but telling girls how awesome they are can be just as effective as anything else. The other day, in SF, one of the girls I was talking to was sitting down and needed to get up, so I said, "Give me your hands, princess." She was like, "Did you just call me princess?" and her face just beamed!
There truly is a spot for sweet guys in this world. Too much time is spent on negs and reducing their self-esteem, but the occasional sweet thing can go a LOT farther than an occasional neg ever will. "Look at you, you're my new princess!", "I like this girl, she's a total sweety!", things like that can be even more powerful than calling a girl a brat. Plus, it gives everyone a warm fuzzy feeling most people think you can only get from alcohol, but no! The only thing better is the well-timed spank, but that's another post..
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