Connecting

Long time no blog...

So, Talking to my friend, he wants to know how to get 10s. Not normal 10s, LA 10s. He can banter, he's got good body language, he has attraction down. He can open 10s, he can even hold their attention, but he can't keep take them home.

You know why? He can't get rapport with them.

Banter and flirting are fantastic, they let girls feel all these emotions, highs and lows, and it keeps them there. The problem is that you stay in your head. You're thinking of the next line, the next cute thing to say. She's on this emotional journey, and you aren't with her, you're in your head.

Rapport, the connection, the true spark and chemistry, is all about taking her on an emotional journey, and being with her the whole time. What you talk about really doesn't matter. Those are facts, and facts are in her brain, and keep her there. Emotions are in her body. Where would you rather be?