Role-Playing Games

I haven't seen this discussed nearly enough, but role-playing may be the most effective tool, as far as male-female relations are concerned, ever. Everything can be accomplished through role play in one form or another.

It starts when you go out. It's never a bad idea to give yourself a role as soon as you leave the house. Party patrol, spanking police, big brother (in the non-1984 sense), or just general pimp, these are all good roles to give yourself.

In attraction, bantering, text messaging, it's all role play. Giving her and yourself a role sets things up properly every time. You can't go wrong when you call her your new girlfriend, or new wife. These games are FUN, and they set the right frame. It's flirtatiously letting her know your intentions, and she'll love you for it. Any time I go out and do really well, it's because I role-played.

When I go for the date, I role-play that out too. Paint a whole picture about how you'll meet, hang out, flirt a little, and have a good time. I even mention how I'm going to send her flirty texts and give her a cute pet name (also an awesome thing to do).

When I'm on the date, rapport can also be handled with role-playing. (Not as much as attraction, but it can still be used.) Talking about how you can see her as a little girl, make yourself her big brother or something, or talk about how you would have flirted with her on the playground by pulling her pigtails, things like that.

When you're seducing her, obviously, role-playing is great. Calling her a naughty little girl to be punished, doing the master-slave role-play, things like that turn girls on like crazy. The role-play in seduction is obviously very different from the other ones because in the other ones you play dominant, but not necessarily a huge difference in social standing or power. In seduction, the difference between roles should place you in a much higher position of authority.

Basically, role-playing is just playing pretend like kids do. Reverting to 6 years old is somehow amazing to girls. Most guys can't do it, but if you can, she'll follow you. I think (here comes quack theory) that it's because as we get older, we're made to work, and deal with responsibility, and the fun-loving child within is put away and forgotten. The guy who can bring that child out again is going to be able to have more fun with her and understand her a lot more deeply than the average, boring, serious guy.

Now go out, play pretend, and climb some damn trees!