<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484</id><updated>2011-11-27T17:02:10.482-08:00</updated><category term='Rapport'/><category term='emotions'/><category term='relating'/><title type='text'>As best as I can remember..</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-7577627180734318793</id><published>2007-08-28T00:58:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-08-28T01:20:18.939-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='emotions'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Rapport'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relating'/><title type='text'>Connecting</title><summary type='text'>Long time no blog...So, Talking to my friend, he wants to know how to get 10s. Not normal 10s, LA 10s. He can banter, he's got good body language, he has attraction down. He can open 10s, he can even hold their attention, but he can't keep take them home.You know why? He can't get rapport with them.Banter and flirting are fantastic, they let girls feel all these emotions, highs and lows, and it </summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=7577627180734318793' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/7577627180734318793'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/7577627180734318793'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/08/connecting.html' title='Connecting'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-8561742630182218378</id><published>2007-05-10T15:47:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-05-10T16:07:30.760-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Role-Playing Games</title><summary type='text'>I haven't seen this discussed nearly enough, but role-playing may be the most effective tool, as far as male-female relations are concerned, ever. Everything can be accomplished through role play in one form or another.It starts when you go out. It's never a bad idea to give yourself a role as soon as you leave the house. Party patrol, spanking police, big brother (in the non-1984 sense), or just</summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=8561742630182218378' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/8561742630182218378'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/8561742630182218378'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/05/role-playing-games.html' title='Role-Playing Games'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-2048315604621906944</id><published>2007-02-07T13:31:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-18T10:13:51.018-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Getting good with women or anything else</title><summary type='text'>I recently thought about what it takes to really get good at game. Everyone talks about inner game and outer game, and recommends books to read and movies to watch. What seems to come up too little is the fact that the best thing to do is go out and DO IT! Books and DVDs are great for guidance, but you should be going out and applying what you're learning. You wouldn't want to learn karate from a</summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=2048315604621906944' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/2048315604621906944'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/2048315604621906944'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/02/getting-good.html' title='Getting good with women or anything else'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-5051795102020917970</id><published>2007-02-07T13:28:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-07T13:31:25.134-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Video on Sexual Harassment</title><summary type='text'>http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-2143915578134513037This video is actually pretty close to how it goes. If you have game, you can hit on girls at your work, and all will go well. They base game solely on looks, and that's not how it is, but other than that, pretty close. Basically, don't dip your pen in company ink. If and when things go downhill, if you haven't been charged with sexual </summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=5051795102020917970' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5051795102020917970'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5051795102020917970'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/02/video-on-sexual-harassment.html' title='Video on Sexual Harassment'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-7127332141035670073</id><published>2007-01-30T11:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-18T10:14:14.049-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Self Esteem</title><summary type='text'>http://www.violentacres.com/archives/100/dating-is-competitive-manipulationIf you are low self-esteem, stop. It's not attractive. This is why people who flirt all the time, even as they get older, have better relationships. She mentions that self-deprecating humor isn't attractive, which is true to an extent. Bitching all the time about the same thing isn't attractive. Calling yourself an asshole</summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=7127332141035670073' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/7127332141035670073'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/7127332141035670073'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/01/read-this-article.html' title='Self Esteem'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-6037069944718796310</id><published>2007-01-18T12:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-01-18T12:02:40.431-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Day in SF</title><summary type='text'>We roll the 5.5 hours up to San Fran, find parking, and go to the BurlingtonCoat Factory, browse for a little while, and some of the San Fran PUAsmeet us there. Funny how easy they are to spot..We go to the nearby mall, and split off. I with Robert, and the 3 ofthem run off to wherever. I open the first set of 2 cuties, Asians,and it goes well, but I just got off a long ass car ride, my </summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=6037069944718796310' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/6037069944718796310'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/6037069944718796310'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/01/day-in-sf.html' title='Day in SF'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-5351568192483873815</id><published>2007-01-17T16:44:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-01-18T11:59:45.966-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Being a "Nice guy"</title><summary type='text'>I know this is counter-intuitive, but telling girls how awesome they are can be just as effective as anything else. The other day, in SF, one of the girls I was talking to was sitting down and needed to get up, so I said, "Give me your hands, princess." She was like, "Did you just call me princess?" and her face just beamed!There truly is a spot for sweet guys in this world. Too much time is </summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=5351568192483873815' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5351568192483873815'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5351568192483873815'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/01/being-nice-guy.html' title='Being a &quot;Nice guy&quot;'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-5950285722046423663</id><published>2007-01-13T14:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-18T10:15:34.363-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Text message flirting example</title><summary type='text'>Last night, I met this girl, and the arctic chill has hit, so everyone is bundled up. Just had to set the stage. I told her we were getting married in Vegas, I bantered with her friend, got her to like me too, called my boys over to wing for me, and I got her number and told her how things were going to go between us. I told her I'd text her giving her a cute pet name, and we talked about Borat, </summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=5950285722046423663' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5950285722046423663'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5950285722046423663'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/01/text-message-examples.html' title='Text message flirting example'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-5874382837005474863</id><published>2007-01-13T11:09:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-01-18T11:49:03.993-08:00</updated><title type='text'>On being scared of talking to people</title><summary type='text'>Now, I know this may sound crazy, but this is my advice for getting over fear of talking to people, especially girls: TALK TO EVERYONE! Seriously, as you walk down the street, say hi to people you pass, smile at folks. Flirt with every girl you meet, or at least don't settle for saying only what needs said. Ask how peoples' day is going. Do what you can to make people smile. (a la Sean Newman)</summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=5874382837005474863' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5874382837005474863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/5874382837005474863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/01/on-being-scared-of-talking-to-people.html' title='On being scared of talking to people'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5067310560001429484.post-1467941974643135652</id><published>2007-01-13T10:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-01-18T11:47:18.757-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The beginning of Spring Semester at UCSB</title><summary type='text'>My good friend Tall Boy comes over with LA, and we go to a party. The party was perfect, nice girls, a little small though. I DO make it a point to flirt with the hottest girl in there, who is surrounded by 2 guys twice my size. I bounce with Jeremy to the street.We walk along, sure to find my friends, Brian and Roger, and we do. We talk a bit, Brian talked to some cuties, and to show Roger that </summary><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5067310560001429484&amp;postID=1467941974643135652' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/1467941974643135652'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5067310560001429484/posts/default/1467941974643135652'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://beansarenotfruit.blogspot.com/2007/01/beginning-of-spring-semester-at-ucsb.html' title='The beginning of Spring Semester at UCSB'/><author><name>Gamer</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17935893547708657899</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
